Are you one of countless young men who have never had sex before? The urge is there, but you are not quite sure that you are normal physically.
The sheer thought of having sex with your new wife next month is making you break out into a cold sweat. You are quite sure she is as inexperienced as you, but do you both really need to be fumbling in the dark?
What if you cannot penetrate? What if you cannot get an erection? Just the thought is embarrassing and you have absolutely no clue what to do about it.
It isn’t a very unusual problem and there are many young men who suffer from sexual dysfunction but most do not have the awareness required to deal with such a sensitive problem. After marriage this very problem can become quite a catastrophic one if you are unable to satisfy your own needs or those of your wife. It will lead to a great deal of unrest within your relationship so the sooner it is dealt with, the better it will be for you.
Many times the problem is more psychological than physiological, and that is where the counseling and at times even medication provided by the doctor proves to be very effective in the long run.
You have seen a lot of the advertisements for sexologists, and even though you want to consult them. What would you say to them? And besides what if someone saw you there. That would not do at all.
You had researched on the internet, and read as much as you possibly can but your problem is still not resolved. Till you do not discuss it with a sexologist it will remain exactly that….a problem!